6 to hate and 5 to be scared off

1. Listening and solving things that involve a lot of problems. Things that make

you mad even to think of it not to say to listen and solve it. It make things more

difficult when its involve relationship which is getting looser and looser. Don't

wanna make any decision that can make it looser but tighten it back.

2.In the middle of everything. Every detail of what is happening around you is

reported to you hoping that you can solve it. Why not they solve it themselves by

sitting down and discuss it among themselves instead of telling everything to a

person to be a middle man?

3.Express of frustration. Every time there is thing going on is there a need to

report it to your middle man so that record can be keep and treat your middle

man as a place to release all your frustration?

4.Looking backward. Every time there is an argument it is appropriate to look

back of what has happen 20 years ago? You don't know what happen that

time and the reason why it happen. We should be looking forward to put

down what had happen in the pass. So get over it!!!

5.Blaming others. Every happening has it cause do not blame it on others all

the while look in yourself once in a while maybe the problem started

because of yourself. Its hard to do so but at least try to listen and accept

others idea. There are also thing that you are not sure about so why keep

thinking of the reason yourself and say it out before you confirm it. Wanna

know the truth ask the person involve. Don't jump into conclusion all the

while. It create uncertain had and sadness.

6. Not reviewing. Every word that have been said even it is words that hurts

has it meaning deep inside. Even though sometime it is hurting to hear those

words. But calm down and think of it, it always contain things that can guide

you in life. But why some people can't understand this no matter how many

time i tell? Did they not think over it again? And they cause the same thing

happening again. I can't solve it every time.

7. Misunderstand that never been understand. Sometime it is hard to corp

the meaning of certain thing and sometime when you are not in a mood it

is hard to listen anything others says When you realise it others might just

pretend there are find and accept the fact that you have misunderstood

but they keep it as a record and keep saying it as if they can understand

what is misunderstand and it create a chaos again.

8.People that keep on expressing without listening. There are people that

keep on complaining and never stop to listen. So when your are the

listener and you have some idea to help instead of getting thing straight

you get a boom in your face. When this happen just try to act that it

never happen but its hard to forget even though you know that person have

this type of attitude all the while that he or she can just forget that they had

boom you in the face.

9.Receiving phone calls. There is always a chaos within each day, each minute

there is a report or else recorded and is reported once within half a year. I

rather receive once in half a year rather than receive every phone call with

a report in it. It does not make you mad, but it also make you worry as a lot

of thing will happen as it get worse. By the time you have to

think of a solution already right on the spot so that more calls can be stop.

10.Money matters. Each topic everyday is about money and money and money

is there anything else to be say when calling a person that you will not see

for months or the person you will see only for one quarter time of a year? Is

there anything to do to increase monthly income? The same question is ask all

the time apart from reporting. The money a month that is earn is enough to

survive for months. Why not just get over it and live with what you have? All

that is matter the most in life is happiness and health. What is the good of

putting away all happiness for wealth? Is it wort it?

11.When being home. When the things to be hate occur. When all the 5 scary

things happen then the madness is generated. When this happen all the

things that is hated will come over looking for you without knowing it

place and time. All that you can do is either face it or run for it. As for me

i prefer running away from it let them solve it their selves. Don't wanna stuck

in the middle anymore. But i can't run my whole life.