ABCs for happiness

ACCEPT~Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.
BREAK AWAY~ Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.
CREATE~ Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.
DECIDE~ Decide that you'll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.
EXPLORE AND EXPRIENCE~ The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.
FORGIVE AND FORGET~Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.
GROW~ Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.
HOPE~Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task

IGNORE~Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.
JOURNEY~Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you'll grow.
KNOW~Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.
LOVE~Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there's room for endless happiness.
MANAGE~Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you'll suffer less stress and worry. Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.
NOTICE~Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.
OPEN~Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there's still much to be thankful for.
PLAY~Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.
QUESTION~Ask many questions, because you're here to learn.
RELAX~Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.
SHARE~Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.
TRY~Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish.
USE~Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that's wasted has no value. Talent that's used will bring unexpected rewards.
VALUE~Value the friends and family members who've supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.
WORK~Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.
X-RAY~Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you'll see the goodness and beauty within.
YIELD~Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you'll find success at the end of the road.
ZOOM~Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.

something to think about...

Since this 2 days my nephew come some how i manage to get lucky on the game of black jack.... even its a small bet can some how grab all those coins. Now i really have a lot of 10 cents...if wanna call it cheating children well it can't be by size he is bigger by age just a difference of 7 years. Yah ...won't call it cheating small kid anyway. After all now is the time to continue my work again starting to get blur with all those alphabet again. Now there is some words to think about..

when there are wind blowing through,

when there are thunder booming away,

when there are lighting striking around,

when the sky are full with black cloud,

all of a sudden everyone rush,

rush to be away from the rain or storm,

taking umbrella, taking clothes,

find a place for shelter,

don't wanna get wet,

does anyone ever think that,

think that there is a possibility,

possibility that it will never rain,

instead sun rose high above,

minutes after that.

in another words things don't always go as the way we think. there is always a possibility it deviate from the normal situation. so always be prepare for what is awaiting no matter it goes as predicted or not.

DREAMS

When we dream in our sleep there is thing that we wish it may come true as it is in our dream. There are also thing that's we don't end up like what it is in our dream. The weird thing is that dreams in our sleep did come true and some people called it six sense. When we see something happen in real life is as if we have seen it some where or some time before this. If a person is granted with this ability when dream occur there is a certain wish that only the nice and good dream will be realise but not all the terrible dream. When once they dream of things that is unhappy and terrible they tend to comfort themselves by saying this will not happen in real life as bad dreams never come true before. Will dream really come true in the reality? Well some did really happen.

Dream in life is another type of dream, dream that maybe we can reach for it or some time as the matter of fact its just a hallucination that keep us going. Some people says without a dream there is no improvement in one selves as dreams makes a person to keep going trying to reach for their dreams. There are also people that thing of an impossible dream dream that will never be granted. There are also people which do not have dream at all and is satisfy with what they have and just live on happily without suffering to get the dream. Which one are you the one with dream or the one without? No matter which one you are there are always things in life that make a person to goes on.

A story to tell

Once there is a bull that run into a farm. While its in the farm it kill several sheep wondering around inside the fence. Here come several watch dog which watch over the sheep surrounding the bull. The dogs would not like to start to bite but instead sit around the bull and question the bull trying to reason with it. From the look of that cause the sheep died and injured is because of the bull horn. But the bull keep on resist even though there is witnesses around. the bull called its gang but there just see and then move on without saying a word. The dog is good enough just to let the bull away by simple compensation of guarding the sheep from that day on from other danger. But the bull keep on resisting that he is wrong keep on saying that he just pass by and the sheep run toward it. So the dogs don't have any idea of how to solve it as it keep on resisting so they decide to get their owner and the bull agreed so the dog gets their owner which is the farmer. Comes the farmer looking at the situation and saw that how the bull has causes damages to its farm and also the sheep. By looking at it he says the sheep doesn't run into the bull but vice versa. By this the bull is asked to clear all the mess and is to work in the farm to plough the land for the rest of its life. This is a story to tell that why don't a person admit it that there are wrong when there are and settle it the easy way rather then settling it in a more difficult way that might cause more trouble and loses to themselves?