Do really kindness always get its rewards?

There was once a pair of husband and wife with two children and a baby waiting for delivery. They have few brotheres and sister. They are a friendly couple at first but this keep on changing from a open wife to a controling life kind of wife. It started when the kind husband answered i will ask my wife opinion first. From that time on her husband started to lose the thing that he had. It is normal to do so in making some decision but in certain places its like the husband is beeing given a traditional medicine so that he would listen to what ever the wife is saying. This goes on and on until the husband family feel that she is not respectable. Instead of controling things happening around she even control money, life, buisness, but in the other hand she is as if a person which can move even a bit. Without doing anything and think of her family all she do is spending all she want. As time come by the husband family start to hate her as because of her all sort of agurment have been going on between the husband and his family. Its just because he is scared of her. As a man he have nothing now every now and then doing buisness by the help of his family members but now people stop helping because they think that its not worth helping. In another words even the majesty queen of a country will not just put aside the people who help her. Hence people around them are discussing about giving up helping them even though they know that this might result in missing yet another member of the hall. this is a hard decision to make as the one giving up is not only one but all of them. The result seems to be unpleasent to the husband but becaouse of the wife which is unworthy to receive anything from anyone this might be the result and yet kind people also have been punish together when they are staying with those who is not. What will happen if you were to say which decision should be taken? Stop them from doing so or just let them goen on with it? Considering that the husband in this tale is someone that see you grow and give you much knowledge?